so as if my outburst of quarter-life crisis isn't enough, my friend started annoying the fuck out of me. I admit i've been some what of anti-social in the past year due to depression and what not. however, i feel like alright, enough with the self-pity, get your ass out there, catch up with old friends and meet some new ones. so i've been all paula dean-ish "c'mon y' all, i'm having a bbq party everyone, y'all"
anyways, so i've invited some people to a weekend get-a-way trip to the Poconos, PA. my friend's got a country house up there and it's supposed to be nice and out door-sy with bbq, hiking and rafting sort of activities. plus, almost all of my friends have dogs, so it could be a cute doggie play date too.
long story short, i invited friends from boston as well. i know it's about 5 hour drive down to PA, but it's the summer, you are supposed to get out. dude, if all i had to pay is $50 for 2 night stay and unlimited food, id be there in a heart beat. so i asked 3 couples and 1 single friend. 1 couple backed out, alright fine, fuck them, moving on. another couple backed out 4 days before the trip, well, they had an excuse, the guy just found a new job and didn't want to take 2 days off right off of the bat, alright, understandable, but that's still shady. so now we r down to 1 couple and 1 single friend from boston to come down. the single friend backed out a while back, i thought, ok, well, i wouldn't want to be the 10th wheel either, so ok, she doesn't know the other 2 couples and she'd feel weird being in a house with all couples and dogs.
now, the last couple still coming down is the single friend's best friend. i thought, hm, since they'd be driving down together anyways and they are best friends, maybe if i invite her again, she'd be more comfortable to come. so i called her and she didn't pick up. she called back while i was walking daisy, so H picked up. H informed her that the other 2 couples are not coming, if she still wants to come, she can just come down with her best friend and it'd be a nice weekend without her feeling like a 10th wheel.
r u ready for her response? here it is: well, i don't feel appreciated when people just ask me to go when people back out. its ok, i don't want to go. you guys are only asking me to go b/c you don't have enough people. i don't like to be treated like a second option... blah blah blah..
first of all, bitch, YOU ARE THE ONE who's all like, omg, steph, we totally have to catch up. it's been so long since i've seen you guys, i miss daisy so much. i want to come visit you! I'm thinking, yea cool, that'd be nice. but i'm planning a weekend get-a-way, why don't you come with us? She's all like, ok, give me a few days to think about it. emails me to tell me she doesn't want to go, but we should go have fun.
We will have fun. and guess what, we will have fun without you. cus your cranky ass won't be there. what, you think i'd cancel the trip cuz you ain't gonna be there? everyone's gonna miss ya cuz you ain't there? get over your fucking self pls. i fucking hate it when people flatter themselves to think i invite only to fill up space. if i don't fucking care about u, i wouldn't even ask. for one, i'm not a super friendly person where i'd just invite anybody to an outting. if it wasn't for H, i wouldn't be fucking talking to half of the bitches i talk to.
this is why i don't bother talking to people, making friends and shit. cus people like that pisses me the fuck off. this is why i'm so fucking angry all the time! i fucking hate self-important bitches that thinks everyone's on their case about everything. i swear, i should have been a guy, cuz i can't deal with fucking bitches and i'm supposed to be a girly girl and all nice and shit. i don't get why this bitch does not get it. i've bitched her out numerous times, i've cussed her out in front of her face, almost slapping her. BUT WHY DOESNT SHE GET IT? why is it so hard for people to just stop being all ignorant and sensitive about shit. why is everytime i make an effort to be nice, people think i'm up for something? this is why i don't even fucking try no more.
women are bitches. all of them. so fucking complicated.
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i would go!! lol, i dont have a dog but i love playing with other ppl's dogs. i think thats the best of both worlds.. play with them cuties and them give them back to their owners to take care of the cleaning and feeding...
your friend reminds me of one of my friends (lets call him T). everytime my friends try to go out, we would ask T and he would be like "uhhh, who's going?" and then we'd name off like 11 people, and there would be ONE PERSON he didn't know, and he would back out. he always wanted us to beg him to come too. in addition, he too, did not appreciate it if we asked him last. he liked to be the first to be invited, but then still ask "who's coming???" HOW DO WE KNOW, YOURE THE FIRST PERSON WE ASKED!! 1@#$@ gaw. and this one isnt even an annoying girl, lolol.
"women are bitches. all of them. so fucking complicated." AMEN to that! i totally agree. i've been in the same situation as u n i just got so fed up i dont even try anymore. girls r just too complicated to deal with thats y most of my friends r male.
i also think its hypocritical for a women to say shes not judgemental because 9 times out of 10 she judges people (mostly the same sex).
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